Sometimes I feel the kids really close by, as if they sense a wave of sadness is coming and they're on standby for Mom or Dad. Other times I get the feeling they're - well, having a little fun with us.

My mom reminded me the other day that the priest who said my grandfather's funeral Mass told us to “be watching... he's going to be sending you signs.” Graham sent his mother a sign before we'd even left the hospital. Georgia welcomed us home with hers.

“If a baby has been lost it means that conditions were not enough for him to manifest and the child has decided to withdraw in order to wait for better conditions. 'I had better withdraw; I'll come back again soon, my dearest.' " - Thich Nhat Hanh

Words are complicated right now and will be for some time, but I wanted to share a little more about what's happening with us and to answer some questions that people have brought up.